How to Help Dyslexic Children at Every Age

Dyslexia doesn’t look the same at age 6 as it does at 11. As children grow, the signs and challenges they face can change and so should the support we give them. Whether you're a parent, teacher, or tutor, knowing what to look for at each stage makes it easier to step in early and give children the tools they need to succeed. At Nessy, we believe in meeting every learner where they are and building from there, with patience, playfulness, and the right strategies.

Early Years (Ages 4–6)

This is often the stage where early signs of dyslexia begin to appear. Children are just starting to develop their awareness of language, so some challenges can go unnoticed.

Signs to Look Out For:

Trouble with rhyming
Delayed speech development
Difficulty remembering letter names or sounds
Mixing up syllables in words (e.g., pasgetti for spaghetti)
Trouble finding the right word (e.g., using “thingamajig” or “whatchamacallit”)
Low RAN (Rapid Automatic Naming) score
Difficulty mastering early phonics or not passing the phonics screening check in school

If you're unsure, a great place to start is with a screener – www.nessy.com/en-gb/product/dyslexia-quest-home

How to Help:

Play games that build phonemic awareness
Read aloud together every day, even short stories
Try multi-sensory learning, like tracing letters in sand or using letter magnets
Listen to audiobooks together
Try some of the FREE Nessy printable materials here - www.nessy.com/en-gb/dyslexia-explained/free-learning-resources

Nessy’s early literacy tools use games, videos and stories to help young children build the foundations of reading in a way that’s fun and stress-free.

Key Stage 1 (Ages 6–8)

At this stage, reading becomes a bigger part of school life, and so do the struggles if a child hasn’t found the right support. For children with dyslexia, this can be when confidence starts to drop.

Signs to Look Out For:

Reversing letters like b/d or p/q
Struggling to read simple words
Avoiding reading tasks or homework altogether

How to Help:

Break reading into small, manageable steps
Use decodable books that match their reading level
Celebrate every win — even the small ones — to build confidence

Nessy Reading and Spelling is designed specifically for this age group, using games and humour to teach phonics in a way that sticks.

Key Stage 2 (Ages 8–11)

As children become more independent learners, the gap between what they can think and what they can write can become more noticeable. This is also when self-esteem can take a hit if they feel left behind.

Signs to Look Out For:

Poor spelling and handwriting
Difficulty following instructions or staying organised
Low confidence around schoolwork
School avoidance can become more frequent

How to Help:

Give extra time and support during reading and writing tasks
Use assistive tools, like text-to-speech or voice typing
Focus on their strengths, like creativity, memory, problem-solving
Encourage extracurricular activities they enjoy (sports, art, dance, science, building things) — this can help preserve confidence and provide balance

Nessy tools for this age group offer the right level of challenge and support, keeping learning structured but still engaging.

Teenagers (Ages 11+)

By now, dyslexia may have gone undiagnosed, but the signs can still be there. Older children may feel frustrated or anxious about school, even if they’re bright and capable. Many have brilliant ideas, but struggle to get them down on paper.

Signs to Look Out For:

Avoiding reading or writing altogether
Writing that doesn’t reflect their speaking ability
Difficulty structuring essays or spelling correctly

How to Help:

Keep support age-appropriate, no babyish content!
Let them use tech tools and apps that help with planning and writing
Encourage storytelling in all forms e.g. voice notes, videos, graphic novels

Nessy gives older learners tools that respect their maturity while still building literacy skills in small, achievable steps.

Let Nessy Support You

Your child knows more than they can get onto paper. The journey is different for every child, but they all deserve the chance to learn in a way that works for them. Whether you’re just starting out, or looking to better support your child or students, Nessy is here to help.

From early phonics to confident writing, Nessy’s age-appropriate programs are trusted by parents, schools, and specialists around the world.

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